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Im a 19 year old girl and i started a part time job recently (ive worked twice so far on saturday and monday). i applied without telling my parents nor my grandparents cuz like i thought starting a part time job when i was nearly 20 is fuxking normal, i even thought it was rather late. I never applied for a job before because truthfully i was in a somewhat financially okay family. We werent rich but we can buy mostly anything we need/want sometimes. Anyway, I applied as a waiter on a restaurant near my lodging and after i was accepted, i told my parents about it.
My mom and dad was supportive and i was very happy. I didnt mean to brag or be overly proud of it, but i was elated that i could mean something. My maternal grandparents was happy for me too, they said that i did a great job. They say that gaining experience was good for me. I was happy, thank you. I love you all.
My paternal grandparents, on the other hand told me that i deserved more "high quality" job because i am highly educated. Working as a waiter on a restaurant is a low job for those uneducated, they say. They say that working as a waiter would lower others view about me. You dont have to be supportive or anything, i wasnt expecting anything, really. I know you were worried about me in some way that you dont want my friends looking down on me but actually my friends was very supportive of me, they didnt look down on me in any way. But after i heard those words, i feel like i shouldnt have done it. I feel like i the hard work ive put on creating a CV and cover letter up to interviewing meant nothing.
Now i just feel like all my good feelings toward my newly attained part time job gone. Idk imma just cry for some hours i guess.
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Your paternal grandparents are snobs so don't take any notice of them. Tell them that you will do your own thing no matter what it is and if you feel like cleaning public toilets you will do that!
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