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Hesitation

4 months ago · 2 · Need Advice, +2


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Observing my career life of 5 years, I found when I start something I am enthusiastic but, along the way whenever there is some difficulty, I found myself losing interest in same work & taking impulsive decisions, leading to change of career path. That's why the career of mine is total mess. One can say I have tried all & hold on to nothing.

I know persistence, hard work, no fear leads to stable career. But in practical, why cannot I apply it?

How can stop hesitating & devote myself to whatever I've chosen?

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    Find beauty in it

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    You are too enthusiastic about it and maybe even excited so that when something difficult happens your enthusiasm (or excitement) drops to a low and you don't want to continue. Don't be enthusiastic or excited to start something, just view it as a normal sort of thing that you are going to do that will have difficulties that will add challenges to it and make it more interesting.

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