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I have something to say that not a lot of people are gonna like but, it's my story and it's a reality. My cousin raped my brother he did horrible things to him and then my brother raped me and abused me and my sister. My brother likes to think of himself as a victim he keeps lying about what he did to me and my sister I think he doesn't want it to be true but it is. The world is full of rapist and abusers and sometimes the way people cope is by abusing others they become the monsters who hurt them and maybe they regret it maybe not personally I can't get a read on my brother the fact he refuses to acknowledge abusing me and my sister but chooses to call himself a victim when it comes to my cousin he may have been abused and chose to abused others but if you make that decision to hurt other people after you've been hurt and choose to deny refuse to attone for your actions then I think at that point you don't get to call yourself a victim I was hurt but I didn't go around hurting others the thought of hurting someone on that way breaks my heart especially now that I have a child of my own one I will never allow near my brother or anyone else I know who has abused others but, sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't allow her around anyone who has been abused that I know either because I know as bad as it is abusers create more abusers.
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I'm sorry to hear about what you've went through. And yes, hurt people hurt people. Abusers can either be made by their circumstances or by being raised/surrounded by other abusers.
This, in NO WAY makes THOSE ABUSERS the VICTIM.
THOSE PEOPLE ARE GROWN ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THAT IT'S WRONG AND ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING TO DO THIS.
So I still have absolutely ZERO sympathy for ANYONE who dares to abuse someone else.
There's a reason you shouldn't be around mentally ill people. You're absolutely right. You can't fix others. You're young (I assume) and you must surround yourself by mentally healthy people who love you and deal with your own trauma.
I've been through s3xual abuse while growing up as well. My abuser was also abused. But I still don't forgive them. Even though they were members of the family.
I know the pain you must have went through and you're NOT alone.
Don't let your child go near ANYONE these days. You're absolutely right. No kid needs to be surrounded by such disgusting people.
Also, please seek therapy. I wish you luck on your recovery journey.
ReplyI was molested by my brother when i was 11 or 12 and i know how you feel about it. It's traumatic. Isn't it? For me it is so much traumatic that I hate myself. I haven't even told anyone about it. I was a child and he kissed me. He took away my first kiss. I still feel disgusted. Then he touched my private parts and rubbed himself against me and i was a kid who don't even know what was happening. I didn't even stopped him as i dont even know anything about sex. I don't even know that he was abusing me as a child. When i came to know what that was i was nearly 14. I am self hating myself since then. I hate everything. I hate him for doing that to me. It affected me so much. I'm 19 rn but i am not even a bit over it.
Replyhoney I know what you’re gping through. when I was 10 my cousin brother who was 18 had just returned from foreign and i had never seen him except on holidays, he never did anything to me ever excet that was what I thought, when I was 13 I learnt what I was actually going throughy, those wierd touches and those eyes peircing throughy me as if stripping me naked. I felt yhat all of that. Even right now i feel cold typing it but I gues hearing other peoples stories and knowing that uou are not alone really helps. We all have different stories. I never know about sex etc, i was only 10. I could not have loathe myslef more after knowing what was going on, my brother was abusing me. I thougyt this was normal it was just something brothers and sisters did, atleast that was what he told me. I was clueless. I hated myself for years and years. Men are animals, I could never trust another. But
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