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I need advice like REALLY NEED IT
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 1 year now he's such a good guy he always planes our dates , gives me presents , tells me he loves me , supports me during bad times....BUT this summer has been a nightmare for me we fought a lot over text and every fight he would try to break up with me and I would have a panick attack and start crying and begging him to stay and asks him why he does that (it happened 5 times in total) we never fight in person it's always over text he's short tempered has work stress and one week before my period I start being moody and sensitive sometimes I pick fights over small things I don't know if I'm just making excuses because I love him or it's a big red flag and I don't wanna see it he never really left me he always apologizes after what happens and promise me to not do it again I know very well he loves me a lot but I feel like this has ruined our relationship on the long term everytime he makes me cry and say hurtful things such as "you made me hate all the girls" and "you're too much and I don't wanna spend the rest of my life like this " etc... I just turned 23 , he'll be turning 23 this december we're the same age... is this normal ? Are we able to fix this relationship or we're not a match ? I really need advice I love him so much and I can't break up with him even after what happened I feel so tired mentally and I'm ashamed to tell anyone about this
HELP ME PLEASE
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I've been through same thing. I understand what you are going through. Nature gives us alert messages, we just need to observe things, we need to understand what nature is trying to say. Just take some time, don't let others compare or blame you. You know you are doing right thing, just go for it. We are our first priority, if we stay happy we can make other's happy. I would say, just take a little break, think what is right for you, for your mental peace and take decision wisely.
ReplyIt’s ok to have some bad times . It’s a part of the relationship in my opinion. The most important thing is that you feel you’re truly loved from his side . Does he really care about you ? When you’re sick is he next to you ? If you get in trouble will he leave or he is there for support and help ? If not , I suggest you rethink your relationship
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