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Society’s popular belief: any type of relationship has to have equal give and take.
Why does society push so hard on idea that “loss” is a bad thing?
Why is always receiving something a good thing but always giving something is bad?
Why do we measure every little thing…?
Why does relationships have to be treated like business?
Why did society put imprint that creates doubt/insecurity within a relationship?
Why does relationship have to be “you are you, Me is me”
why does relationship have characteristic of intimacy yet very clear and fearful about other person invading their boundary?
Why is “losing” themself to others a big mistake?
Why is other person needing extra x,y,z a hindrance?
Why does everyone want/seek perfectly built/functioning human… and think of it as a loss when they are with someone less than that?
Why do they think they deserve love, care, and patience but suddenly be worried and stressed when other person needs love, care, and patience from them?
Why are people surprised when other person needs are different than theirs?
Why are people surprised when other people dont understand what is obvious to them?
Why do people want to abandon others but dont want to be abandoned by others?
Why do people dont want to understand others but want to be understood by others?
Why is it okay for them to behave in such ways but to others it is unacceptable?
Why do we understand that everyone is different yet get scared and get uncomfortable when someone is different from them?
Why do people think their emotions matters the most when other people are capable of feeling the same?
Why do people want to be loved so bad but dont want to love them back…?