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So I (19F) downloaded a dating app and I’ve been chatting with a person for around a week now and they asked me on a date. I said yes because they seem like a fun person, so hopefully I’ll have a good time regardless haha but anyway, I was talking to my best friend about it because I was doubting my decision to say yes, and she asked me if I was attracted to this person.
I honestly don’t know, like I find them physically attractive and I like talking to them, but does that mean I’m attracted to them?? I’ve never dated, been in a relationship, or anything like that, so this is all new to me and I don’t know what I’m feeling or if I’m feeling anything.
If you have any advice, I’d like to hear it!! I honestly just don’t know what to feel haha
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You just got to ride the wave! From my experiences things happen when you least expect them. My best advice is to just trust your intuition and be your most authentic self. Don't stress and overthink it that will just lead to anxiety and you stressing about the worst. Listen to yourself and if you feel that this is a good chance at meeting someone go for it! Also, as to the attraction thing, I feel at least for me that personality plays a big part in attraction, looks are important but someone's attitude and heart can make or break the attraction to that person. You are so young, enjoy your life! Don't stress but always trust your gut feeling and if something feels off then that means it probably isn't worth it.
ReplyBeware of dating apps, and the people you meet on them; there are guys and girls who create fake accounts with all types of fake information.
I will never understand what the allure is of "shopping" for a date the way one would shop for pair of running shoes, but I digress. So anyway, it would be wise to go somewhere very public for a while, as long as it takes, until he EARNS yours trust, for trust, love and respect must be earned and not given away. Best of luck.
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ReplyThat just means that you are interested in them and i would shot my shoot if I were you.
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