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why is it so difficult to begin? whatever you have in mind what ever plans you made out whys it s difficult to execute
or maybe just being plain ass lazy and i wanna get out of it. whatver this zone is i want out
i want to be able to solve problems. little big problems
i want to be able to have all that it takes to be able to make sense of what im doing with my life
i want to be able to speak my mind
to find the exact words to say to what im feeling at the moment
i want to be able to know myself better and work towards making it better day by day
i want to be able to hold on to the good parts even in bad times
i want to be able to fix things
im not looking for someone to come and help me sort this shit out
but it will mean a lot to me if someone helps me put it together lol
idk, i just dont wanna wait anymore
helpless, confused, distracted, tired? not anymore
i wanna do things
i wanna start.
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Sounds like you wanna be an adult. But make sure you learn and figure out as much as you can as a teen. experience situations for yourself and overcome it the adult way.
Replyyes although adulting is not a piece of cake. i am not a teen. lol
learning and figuring out as an adult is exactly what scares me
too much to decide too much to work on too much trying to live up to your own expectations, let alone others.
im not even sure if this is procrastination or i am hellbent lazy
gotta atleast try right?
thanks
ReplyU r saying u are not waiting for someone to help but in your mind u r waiting. So just don't wait and help yourself by ur own. Just take a diary and write down all ur every thoughts without missing which is popping in your head to know urself, to be clear with your ownself.
Replyi used to love keeping a diary
now when i write or try to write, all negative aspects come out of it. like theres not a single positive thing im willing to talk about. all i keep writing is how everything is problematic at the moment and what other things i wish i could try to make it right. its all cribbing and complaining. and tbh, when i open it again to write something, i glance over the previous pages and all of that negativity strikes real hard. I keep asking myself "have i come here again to complain?? not having solved a single issue at hand? still want to cry some more about it" and boom. i close the journal.
does it happen with you too?
ReplyNo, I only write without watching previous pages and someday I revise all pages and then get it solved by myself. Looking that pages I only think why others don't have these complains, ot if they have why they never exaggerate that? How much complains I have to do. They too are living fighting by their own with their own. So, then at that moment. They get solved.
ReplyIt sounds like fear may be why you're resisting the change. Keep in mind that with starting something new, it's usually the starting part that's the hardest.
When you speak of someone to help, do you have a person in particular you're thinking of? If so then let them know and talk about it.
ReplyYou're right! that is fear. Fear of change, fear of losing someone you love, fear of whats lying ahead, fear of losing time, fear of "will i make it" and the list goes on. I guess ins No one particularly on my mind, cuz the fact "asking for help" kind of seems to me as if i don't believe in myself anymore. As if i have given up on me. I think of me as someone who is independent and strong on my own, i also realize asking people to help you, is not bad indeed. But, its time i show up for myself. to prove myself that i have it in me.
As you said, and I know first step is always the hardest, im trying.
thanks
ReplyThat is fear, but fear of losing your ownself slowly unknowingly. Just keep urself with u. Be ur true self. You know who and what u r? If not yet, then find ur true personality leaving everything behind. ✌️👍
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