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So there was a pre marriage meet today. It's a love marriage and we got together to decide the marriage date. Unfortunately we have funds just enough to almost make a budget wedding. There were some misunderstandings and then a light quarrel between my fiancee and my father. I as a son have never spoke up to my elders coming from a asian family. In today's situation no one was wrong no one was right but a stored up frustration which led to a built up anger and fight. Even though later it's sorted. Now my father is having second thoughts because of obvious reasons that what may happen in future, will she be a home broker. I really love both of them. I want both of them and really don't know what to do. I don't have anger issues and I'm a passive person. I'm really scared of what might happen in future. I don't think I can let go of any of them. I just want my wife to be happy with my mom and dad and vice versa.
I don't know whose side should I choose...
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You shouldn't have to choose side's. Itsup to your parents if they like her or not. But they should honor your choice of wife. When it comes to fighting yes you want to keep the peace. You can't make your parents be happy with her that's between them.
You love who you love. If nobody won in this argument then it wasn't worth fighting about in my opinion. Follow your heart is what I can tell you.
ReplyThank you friend. I shouldn't try to force someone to love someone or think like that. Just will continue to love and care for both of them :)
ReplyIf you marry, your first allegiance is to your wife, not your parents. You will be in for trouble if you do not realise this. You need to man up.
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