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I want a relationship but every time I could get close with someone I make sure they do not think I like them. I don’t want to give them the power or the ego lift. Idk why. I am terrified of a guy talking about me the way I hear them talking about other girls. I am literally in love with someone over 20 years older than me. I’m 20. I would not date them. I would probably not even let anything happen. I’m just terrified of my attachment issues. How do I fix this
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I think you gotta sort out fear? Trust issue? With people before even thinking about dating someone. If you can differentiate between good/bad people you will be confident in yourself enough that you wont have the issues you listed. Rn you are fearful because you are not sure. You are scared you will be used unfairly in some ways. If you are with someone good, that will never happen. So how do you differentiate between people? Their mannerism, personality, and belief. More good they are, more resilient they are. This mean they wont be hypocrite. The way they behave towards others is what they also consider themselves. Often people are awful to others while they expect great treatment to themselves
ReplyIf u literally love someone show ur warmth love indirectly. Show that u love him without saying and wait, it is more effective than words.
ReplyBeen there, and that's normal. Time will come when you will make a decision not to give in to your anxieties because you are so in love with a person. You'll do anything.
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