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1 year ago · 5 · Encouragement, +4
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Recently,
I had a conversation with a friend (or a crush but that's beside the point) and we had a discussion about the month of September and what we learned. As I reflected, I realized that I learned a really simple thing but I learned to actually believe it and apply it to my life and the things I've been through and I needed to share it because if it set me free, I know it'll do the same for you. Here it goes.
You know that thing that didn't work out? That opportunity, that friendship, that relationship/situationship? It didn't work out because you DESERVED BETTER.
Let that sink in..
We have a tendency to think that we're the problem. or that we're not enough, when in reality.. you were too good for that thing to begin with. Did you know that you were playing it safe? Did you know that you were lowering your standards and settling? YOU were better than that thing, and it wasn't built to suit YOU, not the other way around. You were the blessing in that situation. You were the one who was the asset and the best thing. You. got the chance to preserve your beauty and essence by not getting the thing, and honestly my love, I'm glad for you.
Please know that you deserve so much more, and so much better. Stop thinking it's you. It was/is them and it was built that way so that you can see yourself for who you really are. STOP playing small. We need you at your 100% percent. You're worth it.
I hope this resonated with you. I'm rooting for you and I can't wait to see how you shine because of this.
All my love <3
- Carbini
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Carbini,
those are the words I really needed right now. I think I need to take it to heart like you do and store it deep in my brain. Thanks for that, it really was a sign.
-D
ReplyGodspeed, D. ❤️
ReplyThank you.
ReplyI was accused of being a liar when I wasn't. They learned the hard way.
ReplyI am grateful and inspired in your bravery to channel your inner guidance into words to uplift others and yourself.
Thank you Carbini💚
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