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One sided love

3 months ago · 5 · Unexpected Love, +1


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As all of u know, love is breaking but at the same time beautiful. I fell for someone who told me not to keep any feelings. He loves someone else but we did friends with benefits things and yet I couldn't help it but fell for him,his smile, his every gestures, everything of him. After a heartbreak it was hard for me to get over my ex. He showed me hope. But now, he says he wants to be alone in his own corner and it breaks me to see him hurting and at the same time i shouldn't have fell for him. Now it's kind of time to let go but I can't. It's too hard for me. I cried it out but still I can't help but want him now. If only he knew someone could love him more than anything else. Idk what to do.

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  • airplanes1231 · 3 months ago

    Be a friend. Rn he just needs someone in his corner. I know that what it feels like to be in his position. If you care for him the best you can do is just be there for him. But if you feel like this isn't healthy for you, then its best to just cut the chord. Unfortunately, you are correct, he cannot love anyone else until he figures himself out and begins to love himself.

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    • Riya04 · 3 months ago

      Exactly, even if ik feelings cannot be controlled..i think it's my fault for not being able to surpress mine. Some may say it's dumb, love and.. sh** but all of us deep down know how important it is. And yea I'm trying to be there for him but he just doesn't care. He's showing mixed signals too.

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      • airplanes1231 · 3 months ago

        I wish u the best of luck

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  • Novni Guest · 3 months ago

    I had a similar thing happen to me. I know it's difficult but you gotta let him be alone and find your own way to get over him. He loves someone else and there's no point in trying to convince him or force him to love you back. We all deserve the kind of love that goes both ways.

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    • Riya04 · 3 months ago

      The person he loves/loved has someone else so he's trying to move on but not by loving himself and stuff but smoking etc..he doesn't wanna be helped or Idk. It's tough to reach him. I just want him to be safe and happy.

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