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I've given up on men entirely

3 months ago · 4 · Loneliness, +5 · Explicit


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I see the meme on Twitter about lonely men posting empty egg cartons to mock women who choose to be single childfree.

I don't want to be single or childfree myself, but I know that I'm not a walking doormat porn caricature. I don't want to be a throwaway one night stand either... and so men ignore me.

Don't get me wrong... I'm a decent weight, hourglass figure, biracial, quiet, soft and helpful, and I've had only one partner (disappointing sex!)... but I'm just trash I guess.

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  • Novni Guest · 3 months ago

    Guys, there are women who want you, but it seems you don't want us and you bring nothing to the table.

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  • BirdNerd · 3 months ago

    Girl, I feel you. Single, child free, have a good job and take care of myself. Not promiscuous but not a prude either. I am loyal and trustworthy to a fault. I don't ask for a lot but the last couple guys treated me like garbage. I'm not.

    It gets old. Rather be alone than with someone who only wants to be there for the night.

    You're not trash. Just haven't met the right guy yet. (I have to keep telling myself that even as I think, "maybe there just isn't one." And that stings pretty bad sometimes.

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  • Novni Guest · 3 months ago

    It works both ways. Both have the same feelings and wants similarly. Forget the memes they are nothing.

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  • Novni Guest · 3 months ago

    Why would men mock women for women's choices? The woman is doing what SHE wants to do. And how is it any of the lonely men's business what complete strangers choose to do with THEIR lives.

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