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my boyfriend talks about suicide all the time and idk what to do. he keeps saying he wants to kill himself and i try to help but no matter how much i tell him he is loved and that i would never be the same if he did it, he won’t stop telling me about it. apparently he has done this to his other girlfriends and i am literally in high school. early high school. we are the same age and i just need help because this made me relapse into self harm again and idk what to do please just help.
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Do what you feel is right and if you think that he is holding you back from being the best version of you then leave him, it's going to hurt especially if you love him but don't let others pull you down with them because you don't deserve it and you need love from someone who will help you the way you tried to help him, you are loved by many others and me as well even if we are strangers❤️
Replyugh thank you. i really want to help but i don’t know.
ReplyIt could be he's saying that so you're scared to break up with him if the situation ever arose. However yes you should treat it as serious. I'm sorry he triggered your relapse too. Have you asked him I mean really questioned him why do you feel this way? What makes you want to off yourself? If he's telling the truth there's always a reason. Primarily in alot of people its escape pain and depression. Try telling him the world is so much better with him in it. For starters. Plus you'd really miss him and not be the same.
However it is funny that he said that to all his former girlfriends and has yet to do anything. Part of me thinks its just to keep you from leaving him. But I don't know for sure that's why I said take him seriously. If you can't help him try contacting his family like his mom for example. None of us are trained crisis people at least I'm not. But if he's causing you to s.h. then that is a problem. Of he cares for you he wouldn't he want that or you to be in distress. You're not his therapist and honestly I think he needs one. You matter too. Be honest with him if you can't help him. Tell him to seek someone to talk to. But let him know he does matter and the world needs him. Do what you think is best.
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