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This question is for those whose parents don't love them.
I wanna know how to start the process of acceptance. I'm an adult. But this still hurts somehow.
People use to say: "they love you in a their way". Well, I'm not going to accept their way: is shallow and selfish, and frankly, I don't like it and it goes against my values. It feels "mistaken". Like, that's not a way of love. It's just interest. It always was. And my continues disappointment was justly because I fooled myself with what people said to me.
Anyways, it's a process. I understand that. And my position about this is: not gonna fool myself, and accept reality. And guys, to be honest, reality sucks more to others, and is time to accept that truth too: parents subject is the center of a balanced human psyque, so I think it is an important matter and it is not that easy to simply avoid it or even deal with it. It's only simply if it's not about our own parents. Even therapists know they are the center shit of all problems. *sighs* I wish I could not love them.
Thanks for reading.
One more time -_-
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