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I am a 16 year old girl with a crush nothing new right? But this all started when I was about 11-12 I meet this guy at church ( I will not go into anything religious) when I first saw him I had a small crush on him but we never actually had a full conversation other than the occasional glance at each or or when saying excuse me to pass by. He would play the drums and we would always have small glances at each other but nothing more than that. Fast forward a couple years I learn he has a girlfriend I was taken a back but not surprised this lasted for about a year he would take her to church but she always snuck out and as the year went on he started showing up les and less at church. A year went on and he seems happier that ever. Fast forward to a couple months ago he became a youth leader he goes onto share about his past relationship and explains how it was so toxic that he was even having suicidal thoughts. Luckily he is fine and is very happy now but ever since then he started coming up to me and making conversation with me. Now keep in mind we never talked before. So itโs a bit strange and I have recently been having some dreams about him like him being nervous and asking me to go on a walk with him and stuff like that. I was wondering if this is all in my head or just my teenage hormones as now he has continuously makes regular conversations with me and has even offered to help me with lifting heavy things, cleaning, and even helping me find things I need is this him just being nice? As he is also constantly asking me questions about myself and is encouraging me to conquer my fear of playing guitar in front of people. Is this me over thing my hormones or something else? I might see him this Saturday for a bonfire what should so do? And is this him just being nice? Please I need advice. I see him tomorrow!
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I mean, if I were you, I'd find it suspicious. I'm the type of person that's always into cautious, but not everyone's like that. I don't think anyone can be nice without having a true meaning behind it. I mean, all of a sudden he starts takling to you? How come he didn't talk to you way before? Idk I personally find it strange, so just be careful.
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