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Things are Going Well and I'm somehow STILL worried even if Things are Going Well
1 year ago · 2 · Need Advice, +5
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I don't know okay it's like 7:30 in the morning but Here We GO!!!!!!!!!!
Basically I've liked this guy for like 2-3 weeks now (oh god we're going too fast aren't we), we've known each other for 3 months, and we were friends for about 2 weeks. He was trying to guess who I liked a few days ago and today he just asked if it was him and I said yes and now we're talking/dating hehehe. He's very nice to me and we say good morning and good night and stuff.
But for whatever reason I think he doesn't actually like me and just started talking because he likes the feeling of being in a relationship. To be honest, we might not even know each other that well. And he broke up with his ex of 3-6 months (I'm not sure) a month ago. He might not even be attracted to me he probably just likes that I like him.
We started our relationship at the beginning of sembreak, and now it's the first day of classes again, but we're not gonna go to school until Wednesday so it's online until then. Maybe I'll know if he really likes me when I see him again, maybe I'll feel less paranoid too. I'm less paranoid when I'm around other people.
But we CAN talk, neither of us are bad at texting (I don't know about me but I'm not dry or anything), and he usually messages me first. He doesn't say anything bad, if anything I might be worried cos he's opening up to me more, and we started talking a bit more like each other (I don't know how to say it but I know people do that). It doesn't make sense, I like that he's doing that but I'm also paranoid and that sucks. Maybe I'll know when I see him in school. I don't know what's wrong with me. I feel relatively fine when I talk to him but I feel the opposite after (siri, what is "emotional permanence"?) I guess I'm also in a rush to be in a relationship, if I wasn't I wouldn't have told him I liked him because I knew there was a high chance he would say yes.
In conclusion (or lack thereof), I think I know I'm being paranoid I just need someone to talk me out of it and I don't want my friends to think I'm insane if I were to ask them. I don't know it's probably fine and I'll probably be happy again in an hour or so. Thanks for reading if you actually made it here. Fun Fact: We're both 14 so that probably makes this whole thing even stupider. yeah 💔
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TLDR: I'm not sure if he really likes me or if he just likes the idea of a relationship even if he's good to me.
Reply14 is very young to be in a relationship, actually it is too young. But if he recently broke up with his girlfriend he could be with you on the rebound. You already have the idea that he is with you because he likes the idea of being in a relationship so he could be filling his ex's space with you. Be careful.
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