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How do I tell my two toxic best friends, that I'm done with their negatively and having them bringing me down and make me feel like I'm less than half the time?
How do I say I don't want to be friends with them anymore? When they're so used to walking over me and getting away with things that I don't think they realise how toxic they even are.
Any advice??
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You can’t tell them exactly what you wrote?
Replybe your own person. Since you know they are toxic, try to stay away. Otherwise, they will continue to use you for their own personal satisfaction / justification. Misery wants misery
ReplyDecide your boundaries, communicate them clearly, stand firm when they push and they don’t respect them tell them that as they don’t respect you or your boundaries you don’t wish to continue the friendship. You don’t owe them anything so you could also just cut them off and call out their behaviour when it happens.
Replyi’ve had very similar problems and i’m going to be so honest when i say you need to be ready for them to ignore your feelings, turn it around on you, blame you for their actions, and say you’re the problem. i’ve had the conversation w a few ppl and as much as you want them to realize they’re the problem they won’t.
ReplyAdding onto the last comment about preparing. Also prepare to have them get angry at you and possibly turning it on you. Saying that you are the toxic one. I can't give advise on how to tell them, because to be honest, in my experience it never goes well. I am not good at that part. But stand your ground and let those "friends" go. You don't need them.
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