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I’ve (19f) been dating my boyfriend (19m) for around three months now and I’m getting a little worried about the sexual side of our relationship. We see each other once or twice a week since we go to different colleges, but we end up having some kind of sex pretty much after every date. Which isn’t a bad thing!! I really enjoy myself and we both fully and happily consent, but I’m just worried that I’m making our relationship all about sex because I get turned on too easily ;^^
Like any time he touches my inner thigh or lower back or even flirts or references a previous time we had sex, I get super turned on and it’s kind of hard to hide haha And he definitely plays into it, but we both enjoy ourselves so it’s not like he’s manipulating me or anything lol I’ve never been able to get turned on this easily and I’ve never experienced sexual attraction like I have with him so I guess I’m kind of unsure of how to handle these feelings
I guess I just want to know if anyone has any advice to make sure our relationship isn’t just about sex and how I can try to get turned on less ;^^
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Don't try to get turned on less. Enjoy the sex while it lasts. Decide what you want your life to be about independent of your boyfriend. I'm not suggesting that he should not be involved. It just should not be about him. If he wants to join you in this endeavor, that is good. If he has no interest, that is OK as well. Don't give your boyfriend all of your free time. Dedicate maybe half of it to other important interests.
Replytry to plan other things too, having sex everyday is good. but try going out to a vacation, try other stuff like cooking together, or helping each other in work, try teaching each other something the other partner doesnt know. too much sex might not be good ,cause you also have to see how he reacts when hes sad, confused, angry,.. if you are planning a long term relationship, be serious about it and try other stuff too, otherwise only sex part is good and then after 1 year it might be boring.
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