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Okay, so this is about a coworker who I think might be interested me. I am not sure. Even if he is, I am sure it is purely platonic because he is engaged to be married and I don't expect anything else.
Yesterday at work, he just took my name out loud for no apparent reason. I was in an office doing some paperwork and he had a clear view and just took my name but didn't even look at me when I turned around to see him. He was busy typing or pretending to type. But the way he took my name sounded like he wanted me around or wanted me to look at him? It was different.
He always laughs at my jokes. I was talking to my boss and made a joke and when he heard from a few desks away, he laughed and said it was a good one.
At an office party, he walked up to me and another coworker of mine and patted my shoulder and told me how good I was at my work and how much they all liked me.
Even though he sits a few desks away from me, he is always listening to everything I have to say. No matter who I am talking to. I am certains of this because a few times he responded even though I was in a conversation with someone else. And I realized he was listening to my conversation when it seemed he was doing his own thing on his computer.
He also asked me a few times if I wanted anything from the office pantry. He asked me to join him and other friends for lunch once. He does ask this to all his friends as well so I guess this one doesn't count.
He followed me first on Instagram and watches all my stories, reels and posts but never "likes" or "comments" on them on Instagram. But when at work, he tells me he saw my post or liked a video that I took of the buildings in downtown. He notices me on social media and asks me questions and makes conversations regarding my posts.
He talks to me about Marvel movies. He talks to me about Cricket even though he watches basketball and knows nothing about cricket. But he makes genuine effort to make a conversation around cricket or anything that I like.
I could be overthinking all this and is probably all in my mind. And I might too have a teeny tiny harmless office crush on him too. I am never acting on these feelings and I am sure he won't either. But it just sometimes make you wonder as a human if someone likes you more than a friend or a coworker.
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From the information you provided, I feel like he is definitely into you. But if he’s engaged to be married I wouldn’t pursue it. It also kind of gives you a sneak peek into his character. How would this office crush make you feel if you were his fiancée and you became aware of it? For the good of everyone involved try to steer clear of complicating this situation. Hope this helps!❤️
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