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I just dk why

2 months ago · 1 · Need advise


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Whenever my frd (guy frd) speaks abt his dreams and goals..idk why I feel so enthusiastic and supportive...idk I kinda feel proud?

But I being a girl...at the same time whn my gal frds talk abt their achievements I envy them..I think why can't that be me...come to think of it girls never share their goals n plans to anyone...I mean including me cuz if I remember correctly Whenever I hav told my plans out loud...they r always bound to fail or fall apart...sometimes ppl aren't interested to hear either n that's why I keep it to myself...

But the feeling of jealous n envy..is it bad? Is it normal to feel that way? Or where did I go wrong n what shld I do to fix it??

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    People feel jealous when they compare themselves to others. When they don't care what others are doing they don't get jealous. So stop comparing yourself to other people and be accepting of yourself the way you are, then you won't get jealous.

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