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How do I move on?

2 months ago · 1 · heartbreak, +2


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You broke my trust. You did what I never expected you to do. I fell so hard for you because I thought you were different. How do I forgive you? How do I begin?

I now catch myself going back to old toxic traits. I’m hurting all over again. How do I trust you again? Am I supposed to have your passwords? Will I feel better if I knew your passcode to your phone? Do I want just the offer? Going through phones is just a way down to a dark hole. I’ll either find something I don’t like, or I’ll feel ashamed of myself. Am I breaking trust with my own self ? Communication is key but is it okay for me to communicate this or will it cause harm because I continue to bring it up?

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    I think you should bring it up with the person. If it were me, I'd have no problem if you were my s.o, to check until trust is established but it needs establishing and then you need to accept it as well. If there's nothing to hide, there should be no problem.

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