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Recently I have been working alot on myself and I feel so much betterr like i have been doing yoga, my prayers, taking care of my mind body and soul. I feel sooo muchh better inside ou because of that. But what happened is, I’d like to give a brief description of my insta so my insta is kinda private I only keep people that I personally know of. And I don’t usually use insta much. I only use when posting pictures or few times in two weeks. But I recognized certain thing yesterday that drains me. I posted a picture of me yesterday and I noticed that I get anxious if people are going to comment or not. I am just concerned that people aren’t goong to comment and I would like atleast one comment. Otherwise I would feel bad. Then I would go on to think if pictures were worth to post it and stuff and Idk what to do at all. Although, I noticed that since I have been working on myself I am able to recognize these behavior and not care much as before but little part of me still cares. Should I remove all people from insta and only keep people that I personally am really close to or not? Because that’s the only thing I can think of. I feel like deleting insta and creating new one but I have 17 posts and I have to repost it again. What do I do? Please give me some advicess… And I know I should not be concerned about it because I post for me not others but how do I deal with it?
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I've experienced this for sure, you are not alone. If you're truly worried if people will comment, Instagram has a feature I would recommend looking into in which you can hide comments, similarly you can do this with likes too. From my time dealing with issues like wanting attention from my close family and friends, I would suggest looking more inwards as to why you want to feel the validation you would get from these people. I wanted it because I didn't feel confident in who my friends were and in myself, so I talked about it with a few of my close friends. We talked about ways we can make me feel more secure in my positioning in life and worked it out. As for my confidence, it's just going to be a long-term goal. In my case there were long and short-term goals I didn't want to admit were things I had to work on and work towards, but eventually, I would like to say it made me better breaking down why these types of things mattered to me so much. Hope this helped and good luck.
ReplyThankyou so much. I am definitely going to work on thiss for suree🫶
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