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It’s hard.

2 months ago · 3 · Stressed out, +3


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I’ve always struggled with my mental health.. the past 2 months, it’s been bad. I can’t eat a lot, I feel dizzy every time I stand, my head hurts pretty often, I have nightmares, I wake up randomly in sweats…

My head is full of these thoughts, how I’m a failure.

I cry almost every night.

Im extra sensitive.

I can’t imagine a future for myself.

I don’t have a job, people my age are starting to get theirs.

I don’t have a car, people are getting theirs.

I wont graduate.

I don’t do anything.

I don’t have many hobbies.

I’m just a nothing. I don’t contribute to society. I’m too scared.

Everyone holds it against me.

I wish I was different.

It’s so hard growing up.

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    I had almost all of the above, still have some. I moved to a different country. If you can, it might help

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  • Gold · 2 months ago

    yes, its hard, when dont have good friends, a love partner, good finances etc.

    i do have a love partner, long distance is a bitch. im depressed for this.

    i dont have good finances. im depressed for this.

    i dont hve good friends. depressed.

    parents fight, there are court cases in my house. i have no one to talk to.

    my love partner has changed alot since she has gone out of city. she doesnt give a fuck for me now.

    i did everything for everyone. no one is doing the same for me.

    trying to stay happy

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    You're good. Just breathe. Don't worry about anything else, except for working out your fears and trying to push through them bit by bit. I think of it like, try and get comfortable with the uncomfortable. People may be starting to get jobs and cars but it's just the start and life isn't a race. It's a ride ❤️

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