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Stuck, confused and alone

2 months ago · 3 · Stressed, +4


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I don't know what to do anymore. I don't do well on my own and I'm dating a wonderful man who sadly never has time for me. He works two jobs and is constantly doing something aswell as having tons of priorities. I go weeks on end without seeing him, he barely texts, rarely calls and I don't know what to do. I madly love him, he loves me and treats me like a princess but I don't know how much longer I can wait. I have to go to my friends for help or someone else other than him to talk to because he just doesn't have time. I'm not ready to leave, I don't think I ever could but it's so hard to wait. I feel selfish even writing this but it's eating away at me

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  • ssaxo_ · 2 months ago

    Maybe being busy with work isn’t always a bad thing, maybe he’s so driven to create a great future with you that he’s working extra hard to save money. I think that you guys should set realistic expectations with each other of how often you guys can see each other, and how often you’d like to hear from each other. Remember your relationship is a priority too.

    Being too busy to reach out to you or see you on “weeks end” is a different thing. Ask yourself, is this okay with me? is this the way that someone madly in love with me should should act?.

    Ever heard the saying if he wanted to he would :)

    Hope this helped

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    He is using you and has you as a convenience. He has you on a string and is probably married and busy with his wife. Wake up and get out of this terrible situation. If he really wanted to he would make plenty of time for you. Stop making yourself available.

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  • Gold · 2 months ago

    marry him.

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