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Hey there.
So let me give you a bit of context before i rant.
I'm in a group of "friends" for a couple of years. 4 girls. Me, (i'm changing the names here, Jennifer, Katie and Rosie).
Jennifer invited me to her house but i couldn't go cause i was sick. That was a few days ago, i'm okay now.
I've texted Rosie if she wanted to go to a museum this Thu-Fri and she bailed on me because she would go away for the weekend with the rest of the girls. So okay, cool. And then i thought "why didn't she asked if i wanted to go? Or the other girls?"
Just now, i spoke to Jennifer on the phone, to see if she would say anything about the weekned. None, i repeat, NONE of them texted me or call me or send to the group chat, to ask if i wanted to go with them. So i called her and asked her how she's doing and stuff and she was a bit off, clearly avoiding to tell me about the weekend thing. But eventually she told me and i told her "yeah, Rosie told me about it. That's great." I was expecting her to tell me something like " i would've told you but- blah blah blah". She didn't even tell me an excuse. She sounded awkward and distand and we JUST came back from a trip to Europe together.
Like, wtf why are they doing this? They never call me or text me personally, and Jennifer is the one who usually arranges this kind of stuff. She wants to be the leader of the group i guess and i don't care about that. What i care about is why am i being left out again (cause is happened before in the past)
Am i THAT insignificant to them? I feel like i'm just an extra in their group sometimes. It's shitty and sneaky what they're doing. They talk to eachother without including me. I feel like i don't matter in this so called "friendship" and none of them called to ask how i was doing while i was sick. I went away fron IG for a week to detox and no one realised. It's a total FOMO with them. You miss one thing, and you miss all of the other things too.
And the funny thing is. I was the one who introduced Jennifer to them. I met her first and then the other girls came along and we made this "group"... Funny huh?
Unfortunately it's the people you think you are friends with that are the shittiest.
I wish i could say to surround myself with people that really care about me and live my life. But i don't have friends to go out with and do stuff together except for these three girls. At least i got myself, my hobbies and my Tv shows for comfort.
I can't talk to them about it cause i can't afford to lose them too...What can i do to show that they hurt me with this without talking to them? Or do i care too much? What is your advise? Stay safe people <3
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This sounds like a gang up to me. I advise you to stay away from them and make at least one other proper friend.
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