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1 month ago · 3 · Stress, +2 · Explicit


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do you ever feel like you'd be better off fucking dead? I mean, whats the point in living if your just going to be sad all the time? Sure, you have your fun times and your friends, but if you die thats their problem not yours. They need to deal with it themselves rather than pushing it off to me.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    ive been exactly where your at.

    your words imply that you are also angry, and even though you are a good person, you are now tired of having to always try to help everyone else out by making sure you create situations where your not the problem. and now that your at the lowest of the low you dont care about whether or not the people around you will hurt.

    this might be wrong.

    but at the end of the day, you have to live, because even thought it sucks right now, not everything will end up in the dumps. you will have these types of moments alll the time. once they start, they never end. but you are loved and cared for and even though its their problem and not yours, you love them. and at the end of the day you probably have been hurt so much that it doesnt even matter. but because you know that pain and hurt you felt, why would you wish that upon others with your death?

    everyone around you care about you. even when being in a room full of people, you still might be lonely, but you are cared for.

    Even by me. Because I have been where you are at.

    But they wont be pushing it off to you, if your dead. And when they get to the lowest of their low you arent going to be there for them. because you'll be dead.

    you are loved please remember this when you think such thoughts that maybe you arent worth it or not perfect or not loved.

    best,

    v

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    Yes there's some days out of a month I feel this way. However I know as long as im breathing I have purpose. When your times up its up don't worry. Life's short enough most people don't make it to 60 70 80 now a days if they're lucky and anymore beyond that. You need to channel your sadness into something like art drawing or poetry or even stories.

    Just by being alive you bring and add value and worth to this world. Hang in there ok. Life's not always easy but its better with you in it.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    Are you the one who always takes care of everything with your friends and family? If it’s affecting your health, you need to stop to care for yourself. You can’t be responsible for so much anyway, if you’re not in a good place. You will not be helping in an efficient way that people need.

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