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Huh a sister now.

1 month ago · 5 · Need advise


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I just found out I have a sister! 16 years of being an only child now I have a sister! She attended my school, I knew her and yes dated her****horror***. Now she's all about knowing me and my parents. She was adopted when my mom gave her up, affair I think? But its weird that she's so touchy and close all the time now. Not sure if she'll talk about her and me but it weird to me.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    There's no real harm done because it was done in innocence without knowing you were related. You probably should eventually talk about it and put it behind you. Focus on becoming close as siblings. It may take time so start with small conversations like about school, what she wants to do with her life etc.

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    • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

      Innocence gone.

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    • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

      Thanks!!!!!!!

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    I need fucking advice not someone flagging my answer!!!!!!

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    I'd say that you guys should chat about it together. If you guys both are ok with it in the past then do you need to share with your parents? Otherwise tell them and move forward. This must be very odd for you both, just know that you haven't done anything bad or wrong or shameful, it'll just feel wierd for a while 🙂 I'd suggest speaking to a counsellor as it'll help you process not just the past but the current situation etc.

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