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Regretting talking

1 month ago · 2 · Stress, +4 · Explicit


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I say something - I immediately regret it

I think about saying something and eventually speak it out - I immediately regret it

This shit keeps me up at night. I'm finally in a good place and I feel like I keep fucking up. They say I don't but really-I do. I come off as an attention seeker. I DON'T mean it that way.

I just can't phrase things the way I wanna. Or I say something and realize that was tmi and WAY too explicit.

I won't loose these people. They are my safe space but past also haunts me and gives me anxieties and what ifs... I can't just keep getting away with what I'm saying

Also it's just really cringe so I think I should just stfu but that's not healthy at all either.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    girl so relatable u go girl

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    Firstly sounds like you have a beautiful and common case of social anxiety. Work on it and don't let it control you. But also if you do believe you're saying the wrong things try being quiet a little longer before you speak, don't just blurt out. Think about what you want to say beforehand.

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