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I’m miserable, so I get told “talk to someone”. I talk to someone, they tell me to stop whining. And then my brain goes “that sucked, I will keep you safe and not let that happen again, so now you shouldn’t talk to anyone else”. Repeat.
Why tf do you guys say, talk to someone, speak to someone? I’m already beating myself up, what does it help to have someone else beat me up too?
I know I’m a loser, I know. I’m the lowest scumbag. Other people have valid problems, my problems are all made by myself. I had every opportunity and squandered it.
Of course nothing good will come of it if I talk to someone. It’s inevitable they will think “this guy is beyond help”. I will stay safe. I won’t talk to anyone. I will stay safe even if it rots me and makes me miserable. I will stay in my own little toxic cocoon. And I will only come out to let everyone on Novni know how much of a dumbfuck I am.
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ReplyDon’t be this critical to yourself. You haven’t met nice people in life, but you’re enough, person with mission with heart.
Believe in yourself
F$&c others opinions
ReplyDon't invalidate your feelings because others said so. If its bothering you then its a problem. But yeah talking to someone really doesn't help unless you find someone good? Who is actually good at listening and then giving advice. Otherwise its useless. People make you think like you are exaggerating stuff. So maybe keeping it to yourself will work. Thats what I do now.
ReplyI've had similar things told to me when I tried to open up. People like that don't care, or maybe they just don't know how to care. Find someone who does care about you and is also a good listener, and talk to them. Or talk to a therapist. Or just let it all out on novni. But don't bury it down. It will only ever fester. Make you sadder, and angrier. And you can listen to yourself too. You experience emotional pain because whatever it is is painful. Don't kid yourself. Your feelings matter. They are valid and understandable.
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