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3 months ago · 3 · Stress, +3
Actually I have lot of friends. I don't call and they also do the same. We don't talk to each other. It's been one month..there no text messages...i feel lonely at some point and try to talk with them but they don't even check my msg and calls..but when I put status about loneliness and alone.. i don't have anyone to share about this, nobody to talk' like that they started to argue about that...it even make the situation worse... I'm getting anxious 😩 after that i have meet some friends they approch me... they asked me to hangout...we went to someplaces.. it's been relaxing I'm little Happy...but the others are like you changed a lot ..you got new friends you don't even care about us...🙃 What the hell...those friends don't even calls me or talk to me..but when they need me for assignment, seminar preparation,exam study...they do call me and ask me to do their works ... At the beginning i did for them.. i helped them...but they still like that one time i don't feel well i have heavy fever and headache...that time also they ask me to help.. i did for once and it's even to hard for me...couse i have to do my works also others to... it's frustrated ☠️ and i realize that they don't even care about me..so why do I need to help them... that's not my work anymore...and they start to say like you are too mean...your selfish...you have changed... What the hell..🤦🏻♀️ they even complain about me to other friends..who are now studying and working in another place.... what's the heck they are thinking about me....Tell me honestly did i do anything wrong? I want to know what is wrong?
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Your 'friends' are using you. You are on a journey that is individualized. No one else has your talents, tendencies, and preferences. Stay focused on your path and have no worries about these so-called friends and their opinions. Others with common interests will notice you and will want to travel with you and should as long as the benefits are mutual. When this stops being the case, bless them and move on without them.
You are on your way to discover (uncover) your true nature. It is more of a subtraction than an addition. You will be removing unnecessary opinions and assertions about you and others as you proceed. You will eventually see (realize) that you are perfect enough as you are and how you change. You don't need these 'friends' to validate your worth.Reply
Thank you so much ❤️😊Reply
You're doing the right thing for you. They just want you to keep doing the right thing for them. ❤️Reply