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You broke up with me because you wanted to work on yourself. Because you were having a hard time with your mental health. I get that I do I told you I was proud of you for finally being able to put yourself first.
But now you call me just an ex, we were together for 3 years, you don’t message me or anything. I never hurt you and neither do I plan to so why do you pretend like I don’t exist?
You haven’t blocked me and say we can be friends but that’s a lie because you can’t even be near me anymore.
What did I do
How do I fix this
Why are you doing this to me
I never cheated, never lied just loved you no matter what and now I’m invisible now I’m alone.
I didn’t do anything so why are you treating me like this
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I think what you are feeling is super valid, idk how long ago you broke up, but by the way you describe it sounds recent. I think all of what you are feeling is part of the grief because you lost someone important to you unexpectedly so its obviously shocking and its hard to process when someone walks away from your life and its hard to not take it personally, but i think they are probably just putting boundaries in order for them to heal in a healthy way, and trust me, distance is best when it comes to breakups, i know its shit but trust the process, when we break up with people we have to let each other heal by their own and at our own individual pace in order to have the possibility to reconnect in a healthy way in the future, their healing process may be look different from yours, and maybe they need the distance in order to make the process more bearable. Im sure they still care deeply about you, but im also sure that it hurts them to have contact with you so try to see things from another perspective, i promise you it wont feel this shitty if you give it time.
I send you a lot of hugs
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