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Im trying find a way to remove my dad from our home whether temporarily or permanently. Yes even though its the drugs making him mostly act this way. Well I had to go out to a couple stores for mom shopping. No more than I get back and make it to the front door I hear him raging yelling at mom, again. I open the door I ask what's the deal I can hear you outside neither will answer. All he's worried about now is kissing my cousins ass giving him weed and a Coleman lantern he can't smoke or use anymore. He's so offended he won't call back. Not caring how he treats us like dog shit. He goes in the bathroom continues to run his mouth.
Yes he has been showing signs of suicidalness maybe not today but last night he said I hope I don't wake up, if I had a gun if shoot myself. Uhhhhh well there's other ways if he really wanted to do it
(not promoting it any way nor do I want him to but he seems to use that as a gaslighting way to con mom out of more drugs idk its f#cked up.)
He's unstable as can be. He just needs drug and mental help he won't seek it and continues to yell at us making our lives hell. Mom takes her anger out on me in ways so im screwed double. Id leave if I could but I can't. If somebody don't want to help themselves yet continue to be abusive yelling being really mean what choice do I have other than try to commit him? This should have been done years ago only mom and dad were on drugs worse when he physically assaulted me then intimidated me not to call police like they'd blame me for the drugs in the house. And paraphernalia. I've been oppressed by this man too many years its part why nobody other than my heartless loneliness complexed aunt and her mayun Doug will talk to him. Well idk mom just blows taking about it to her. Her excuse before was I can't live without his income. Ok is living in hell every month "WORTH his INCOME"!?!? Now she's I guess don't know what to do she stays silent when I say im gonna try to have him removed. I have him on tape mom going go ahead threaten me all you want. Well I can't stay in hell forever with this unstable mental drunken drug addict psycho. Idk may be there's nothing I can do but I don't have to accept his abusive tone and mouth and mom says don't yell ignore it I don't want throwed out. I've yelled twice cause im fed up of it I've heard it for a week him yelling he's been yelling for about 7 days now under drug influence. I don't if I can do anything or not. But I can't tolerate his fits randomly daily yelling cussing at mom for drugs and whatever else. Poor dog cowers in fear and hides. Shame on you dad putting us through this. There's gotta be a way to get him out of here.
I just read
When should you give up on a mentally ill person?
In some cases, the decision to leave is obvious. Would if I could. If physical abuse is present to any degree, and especially if the individual fears for their own life or well-being or that of their children, itโs important to leave as soon as possible. Safety is the number one priority.
Yes I fear for my safety he's unstable as a volcano. His abuse was verbal and throwing items at mom and kicking shaking her bed. He ain't supposed to be here anyway but we could get in trouble for housing him. Mom won't kick him out that's part the problem. What a mess you and your fkn drunks. And being psychotic mentally ill. Sigh.
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