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Unwanted Therapist

2 months ago · 3 · Need Advice, +2 · Explicit


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Do not get me wrong, I love to help people and be there for them when they need it. I don't wish to seem petty on me or say how terrible my life is. But I am so sick of being a therapist 24/7. Every day I walked to school (I am a sophomore) and I am bombarded with negative comments. One friend telling me how she had to watch her brother all weekend because her sister didn't want to or the other who has the most laid-back life saying she needs help. I get that people all have their own issues and I don't mind being there for them. But honestly, my life for a while has been shit and some serious situations that are out of my hands. I don't have anyone or anything to help with it either. The moment I try to mention anything they say how I have a perfect life and it can never be as bad as theirs. My life story lol, tough it up. Like I said I do not want to seem whiny or petty, this is just a rant and maybe advice. I hope whoever is reading this that their own struggles, if any, get resolved soon and that they have an amazing day. Stay positive :) Thanks for listening

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    You are a really kind person. I understand how it feels. I feel the same because when my friends have problems, I would listen to their problems but when I had problems, no one was there to listen or maybe it's just me that I couldn't share my problems with them๐Ÿ˜…. I sincerely hope that many good things will go to you. Thank you for sharing. Have a nice day

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    Appearances can be deceiving. People I guess don't stop and think hey they're human too they have struggles too. I commend your kindness to them. I understand im used as a free therapist on occasion too and my life is all over the place yet just like you nobody wants to listen to me either ๐Ÿ˜… haha.

    Anyway I hope your own struggles get resolved too and you have an amazing day or night :) its always nice to see other kind people in the world like yourself. Take care

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    This sounds like there is a 'who has the worst life' competition going on. Why can't these people talk about happy things for a change?

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