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Heartbreak

2 days ago · 2 · Stress, +3


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I have been in love with my best friend for about 13 years. I tried to date a bunch of other people to forget my feeling about her because I want to treasure our friendship forever, but somehow, deep down I realized that my heart longed for her, like it has to be her only. And, damn it, it hurt like hell. I never believed in an idea such as soulmate things until I met her. I confessed and she just turned it down. And here I am, trying to accept the truth.

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  • Suha_my_me · 2 days ago

    Hey buddy, I'm sorry that you feel that way. it must be hard but you can pull yourself together. i came across quote that said "First love never dies, but true love buries it alive." You do not have to feel guilty for feeling that way with her. Try to focus on yourself instead. Try to do things that make you worry less. It will be hard but i hope you will get better. Try not to think about it. Hope you have a good evening.

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  • Novni Guest · 2 days ago

    This happens when a friendship is tried to change to a relationship. It was a chance you took that backfired but at least you tried. So now to help you get over her write a list of all of her bad points and when you miss her read it.

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