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I want to be happy alone i am unable to cope up with everyone around me although it's not bad but I feel ery nervous that what the other person will think about me i want someone in my life who listens to me helps me supports me doesn't judge me on the basis of looks or money but like me for who i am but these days it's almost impossible to find someone like that everyone either needs money or good looks or just want you to be with them all the time even though they don't want to put efforts from their side
Like this girl, we were in the same course and it wasn't even 10 days she says she has feeling for me like wtf do you mean you have feelings for me you don't even know what am I she says she's had 100 boyfriends atleast like it's not a problem at all and when I say what you like about me she says you're cute etc. Like bro being cute won't pay your bills or help me in any ways except having a friend like you. And even though it was just a friendship from my side she would force me to say I love you like why should I say it even though i don't mean it. Anyways I left her as she was and got myself together.
And my problems don't end there
Then my family's there i am not saying I don't like them like i love them but i font like my uncles and aunts because they're using my father they just talk to us because they get benefit from that my uncle who's younger than my father his life is all about money like bro what you gonna do with that money if you don't have someone to spend it on that man goes to shopping once a year and then there's his wife she's a hoe and a bitch in my town only she's got a 100 boyfriends and my uncle knows about it but doesn't do anything and she tells her children to not talk with our family like bro why you involving kids in it just fuck off and go on with your life.
Then there's the youngest uncle he's got lung disease but that doesn't mean my father has got to take care of him all the time 24/7 like he needs relaxation from all of it but he can't do nothing because of him he can't leave him alone my father would prioritise my uncle over his whole family. We are broke and we gotta get my sister married in 2-3 years from where will I get the 200 grand from bro if you don't earn i am not 18 yet so i can't work but after completing high school even I can't earn that much i have to study further too i don't know man what do I do with my life
I am so stressed in this situation and there's no one to talk about it no one wants me everyone i try to get a connection either uses me for attention or time pass and then she'll say oh i see you as a friend
Can't do shit in my life
Someone help me please !!
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You see yourself as being in a bad situation, but it isn't that bad really. This is a phase you are going through and if you are able to receive being told you are cute as a compliment you maybe could have a great friend. When she said to tell her you love her you could have just explained to her that you don't love her, but you would love to be her friend. But you bring in your negative attitude to this and ruin a maybe good friendship before you give yourself a chance. You say you want someone in your life who helps and supports you etc. so what do you intend to do for this person in return. When you have a more relaxed and positive attitude you will do much better. It is not for you to worry about your father looking after your uncle or your sister's marriage. Let your parents work these things out. They should know best. Be gentle with yourself and others otherwise you will keep sabotaging yourself. You can be happy alone by having one or more hobbies and interests. Best wishes.
ReplyLook at the moment let me tell u a thing u just have to go with the flow just know life is very unfair so dont try to make it fair but be fair urself and dont worry abt the future concentrate on what's going one at the moment and give ur best to it.. Hope it helps I tried my best although I don't know how to motivate but I tried🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
ReplySorry I couldn't give any help for you but please remember there might be someone who will respect you out of nowhere. I know it feel very impossible but at least this is my only motivation to live up until now. You might find a lot of different people or even creatures (I am not recognize those F-ers a people) in your life. But please keep in mind that perhaps in other side of the world, there might be someone who will support your backs even though it might took more time than you would think.
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