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yall i seriously need some advice
1 month ago · 3 · toxic friends, +9 · Explicit
so there is this toxic girl who sits besides me in class and umm, she is clingy af. She just assume everyone is her friend and wrong from my part for letting her believe that I am her friend. When in reality she is just another classmate for me. She's been stick with me since the start of the school year and all I did was put up with it. Someone please tell me how to get away from her without causing any drama or some shit. Cuz I know her past, she told me even though I never asked. That she had so many friends or whatever the fuck and now she hates them and how shitty she talks about every single one of them. And ofc to not be one of them all I did was stand her so she didn't do the same to me, but she is getting on my nerves, and patience is getting off its limit and honestly I never really wanted to be friends with her, I don't know why she became so close to me. Yeah now I know that the people she referred to that she hates, they are not the problem. She is the problem. Me and my other classmates fucking agree. But for my unluckiness I am the one who is sitting closest to her in class. And she always asume that I want to be in the same group project as her when in reality I don't. And you may be like, well you should have told her in the first place. Well let me tell you, it isn't easy knowing how bad she talks with others, ofc I wouldn't be surprised if she did the same to me. I just don't wanna cause drama. I just want her out of my vision. Is like a fricking flea. Advice please on how to get rid off of toxic people without any drama and without telling them directly, because if I did, she wouldn't understand anyway because of her toxicity and immatureness.
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stop talking things personally
So I got to one point were I am wondering if my "friend" id toxic or is It me. I am the problem? Like I don't really like how they treat me from my PO...
(20) the words i never said; dear clementine,
i find myself wishing to speak your name with hatred. i want to hate you. i want to speak your name as a curse. in fact, i don't want to speak your name at all....
well my advice is start remaining silent and don't contribute in any of your conversations. Try to change your seat and just run away from her after the class if she would have some self respect she will stop talking to you just become a stone in front of her and pretend to be super busy you really have to be tolerant a bit to avoid any drama as you said.Reply
I would talk to a counselor or teacher about your concerns. To me, that is the only way you can safely get out of that situation before it becomes something bigger. Maybe tell the teachers in the classes you sit next to her that you are uncomfortable. Usually, they respect that kind of thing and make it anonymous. I am in a similar situation as you and asked for advice, and the same advice I get is exactly what I am telling you. Of course, it will probably work out itself but you should deal with it sooner or later. You don't have to tell them everything just the concerns that you have and what makes you uncomfortable. I don't think she means it intentionally as you said. It is very real that some people have ticks and traumas. But telling someone is better than letting it progress for both you and her.Reply
Your teacher should allow for a seating change, just ask. Good luckReply