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Marriage is not for everyone
1 week ago · 0 · Marital Stress · Explicit
I’ve always heard it being said “Marriage is not for everyone”. I always thought that was extreme but right now there’s no firm believer of that statement more than me. My advise for anyone thinking or considering it; first be sure your sexual drive is compatible. Don’t listen when they tell you that sex before marriage is not right. That may very well be true, but will they be there when you’ve been sexual starved that you start recollecting former lovers. What about what’s acceptable in bed. You may want some kink and they may just not be into it. Then how do you survive. Stay up at night looking for a forum that allows you to vent anonymously. Build up so much resentment that you almost feeling like walking out of the whole sham of your marriage while your so called husband is snoring is ass off next to you. The list goes on. So take my advise-have sex, explore your sexuality so well that you don’t have any doubt whatsoever. Second advise is money. Now let me say, if you’re accustomed to a certain life style and comfort, never settled to anything less. It’s frustrating. Stick to those who are of thesame level or higher. Believe me, I use to think when you love someone it shouldn’t matter but it really really does. When you marry someone who doesn’t appreciate comfort or luxury and sees it as “wasteful”, you will suffer and you will grow to recent him. I wish I took this advise. Now deep down I am sad and filled with regrets.
They may do some other things to make it seem like you’re lucky to have them. But trust me when a man fails in sexual satisfaction and comfortable lifestyle, everything else isn’t as important. For instance take a look at “me”. I’ve always dated a certain type, though they turned out to be pricks, they sure did satisfy my sex drive and gave me a taste of the better thinks of life.
You know a voice inside your head tells you it’s okay to marry “low”, as long as he has potential. But honey “potential” has been sitting on his laptop days on end and that hasn’t translated to an increase, if anything it’s the same old story. 40yrs old and still a loser and a failure as far as I am concerned. 40 for goodness sakes! How did I end up here, when is this “breakthrough” even going to happen when all you do is stay home most days on that stupid laptop which hasn’t brought me any good. I wish I had gone for the young rich ones when I had the chance. But no….I was being a good girl. Now I am an old woman with an apology of husband.
I could go in for pages…….bottom line is, I am unhappy and filled with regrets. So so so unhappy
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