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I'm the youngest in my family and the level of gaslighting I've experienced from my siblings and especially my mother (queen of gaslight) is absolutely wild. It's a miracle that I've still retained my mental faculties after all these years of torment. I'm currently living with my mother and oldest brother who is relatively new in the states (came 3.5 yrs ago) and I've been paying the majority of the rent and all other bills. He is working at a job where he makes i believe 16/hr and and has a side business with amazon. Since I'm making in the 6 figs, more than him, I'm paying the bills and he contributes very little to the rent. We've been looking for a bigger place to move in with my other brother and his kids since he's going through it with his wife. The thing is we've agreed that we were going to contribute to the rent. Now that we've been approved for a house, my brother that has kids tells me that since him and i make more than the oldest brother, we're paying all the rent and bills so that the oldest brother can quit his amazon job and find something better (level up basically). I absolutely said no that he has to contribute too. When i was going to college and was broke as hell even with a job, my siblings told me i needed contribute which i did with the small amount of money i was making. How is that fair that the oldest brother of my family will pay zero and basically become a free loader at home while us younger siblings pay for everything?!??! Because I voiced my disapproval, my entire family thinks i'm wrong and that I'm an evil person. My mother even said that "You are a monster, you are the devil. I carried you for 9months fed you and.." Nasty stuff and threats she told, but I'm used to her cursing me at this point. All of this because i said that my oldest brother has to contribute to the rent wtf is this shit smfh i'm beyond frustrated and I'm thinking of moving alone and leave my assholes of a family in the past forever. They can all go to hell!
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I wonder why they want your oldest brother to be a free loader.
ReplyI guess since he's relatively new here they want to cut him some slack, which we did already and I think it's a terrible idea and highly unfair to keep doing this. As the oldest brother he should be ashamed and if I were him, I would've never lowered myself like that and let my family treat me like a teen when he's almost 40yrs old! Absolutely absurd
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