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boy at my school will not stop texting me. he calls me at least 8 times a day and when i picked up once to ask him how he got my number, he just laughed and asked me how my day was.
it's a little overbearing as once I blocked him and asked to move away from him in bio, he started waiting outside our class for me and would refuse to let me walk on my own down the hall. at first, I thought, fine. if i have to put up with this until he's lost interest, fine. it was uncomfortable, i was uncomfortable.
i took him to the library this week and told him that what he's doing isn't acceptable. that he can't just follow me around everywhere. one of my friends came up to us and talked to me during. after my friend left, the creepy guy got infuriated for some reason.
i think he's obsessional. asking me questions like 'who was that guy?' 'does he like you?'. it just made me think he's delusional to the point where he thinks i'm reciprocating his feelings, even when I have blatantly told him that I really don't want to be around him anymore.
I've talked to the school board but they said they can't do anything because the grounds for 'gross misconduct' haven't been met. all they can offer me is a room to stay in during breaks, and for all of my teachers to keep a closer eye on me.
two of my guy friends offered to escort me around, but I just remembered that boys face when he saw me talking to one of them. I don't want to see them hurt or injured just because of my schools incompetence. I have no idea what lengths he'll go to.
why should I have to give up my breaks, my friends and my liberties for some guy that doesn't understand that no means no?
I've made a point of being nice to people, it's not really in my nature to be unkind or cruel. But I'll listen to any ideas you have as this is starting to affect my school work.
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You'd think the school board would do something. It should only take a principals word of "leave this person alone I don't want to hear about you following them around again" to get them to stop. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. You shouldn't have to.
Find out who he is where and he lives. Maybe have your parents talk to his. You should carry pepper spray too with you if you don't already . If you have to , go to the police on him. Stuff like this isn't a joke. Who knows what he's capable of. His behavior isn't normal. You better tell your parents let them know what's going on regardless. Don't go about this alone. If you have to blow his picture up on social media and say this dude won't quit harassing me. That'll get attention really quick. I hope you get this resolved somehow soon xx
ReplyJust be like dude I'm not into you, I don't like you. If he continues, tell him you're going to sue him for harassment I guess idk.
ReplyI'm so pissed the school board isn't doing anything about this! Well if it were me lol I'd literally try and be as repulsive as possible to be around so he'll lose interest pretend to hate the things he likes, pick ur nose, or just always be scratching something around him lmaoo idk it can't hurt?
ReplyIf he won't leave him alone, slap him. You may get called to the principals office, but honestly this guy needs to get it through his head that no means absolutely no. You should have those guy friends escort you around, always be around friends. Guys or not. Ignore this guy, ghost him, he sounds dangerous.
ReplyIf he won't leave you alone, mis typed :)
Replyik the feeling. its disgusting. if you're still in contact with him id suggest to write out a short msg. that it seems like he doesnt understand, but u have no plans in getting to know him. you are not interested and never were. that you no longer want him to approach u, text u, talk to u, get into touch w u. that u wont be changing ur mind abt it, not now, not anytime soon, not ever. and to please leave u alone.
surround urself w ppl u know and trust. as frustrating as it is to have to make these changes just to avoid someone who seems a little misguided, if not psychopathic, ur safety needs to be prioritized.
its good to also keep receipts bc its important that you have smth concrete to show for his relentless action in pursuing u. this is harassment if he continues to do what u have nicely asked him to stop doing. and that seems to be the case so i have no idea why the school board wont do anything abt it. im sry u have to go thru this.
ReplyTell him that you have a terrible contagious disease and that you are covered in runny sores. And you have herpes as well.
ReplyAsk the school if you can set up a meeting between you two with the counselor or principal so that you can turn him down in front of someone and maybe he will take it more seriously, you can even ask a teacher you guys both share so they'll look out for you more. Finally, If you are still in high school or below get your parents involved if you can tell them what's up and write down the creepy things he does. If you are not in high school or lower you should have campus security tell them what's up as well you might have security in high school and lower too depending on where you go to school. You should also take your friend's offer and stop paying attention to him. Completely shun him no more nice gestures I don't care if his pencil fell into your lap drop it on the floor and walk away. Im, sure he derives satisfaction from you being nice or trying to let him down easily. If he tries to talk to you turn your head the other way I'm serious. I hope this helps and you should totally give us a update.
ReplyTell your parents and the police your concerns. The school will be more likely to get involved at that point.
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