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hey! i'm a gay guy on his 20's living in a homophobic country who's never had a boyfriend before. this has always made me dislike myself and feel like i'm not worth loving all my life. there was this guy i knew last semester and i liked him but we started not seeing each other as often as we used to so i never really got a chance to go up and like build a relationship with him yk. there was this major thing happening in our country a few days ago and when he posted about it on insta i took the opportunity and replied to his story, we started talking from there. he would always reply as fast as i wrote, would double-text, wake me up with cute good morning messages (i woke up to 9 messages yesterday), and acted cute with me and i thought that he's interested in me. yesterday he started replying really late to my messages, and up to today he still does it rn. why could he be replying so late? he woke me up with another good morning message and 5 messages today but he still hasn't responded to me in 5 hours. i had a lot of straight guys seek my attention and they would ghost me after they got it so rn this situation makes me very anxious and sad. he had some stuff with his brother being injured so they went to hospital for him yesterday and he's moving out tomorrow to another city so i thought he was replying late because of those but he said his brother is doing better now.. idk im just confused and sad. why is he doing this? should i ask for his phone number in case he doesn't check insta often? or is it because he's simply not interested in me? what should i do
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i feel desperate talking like this but i think i simply am desperate. because i actually feel like i will die alone often. so everytime i get a situationship like this it makes me excited like a kid and when it ends up being nothing i cry a river.
ReplyListen honey, it's okay sometimes shit happens....u can ask for his number its not a big deal.May be something is happening with him so he is being busy to gather his own shit together any anyway.Dont worry.... I cheer for u.Fighting honey.
Replythank u! hoping all goes well <3
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