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Idk where to even begin. I'm married, 3 kids. My husband is a great guy. We've drifted apart a bit but I'm not unhappy. A little lonely sometimes. We met a couple almost a year ago and have become great friends with them. I've always been friends with and bonded more easily with men. Tomboy problems I guess. Of course me & the man are friendlier than I am with the wife. About 3 months ago over the course of unfortunate events, we were forced to spend more time together. For 2 weeks I stepped in and helped care for his toddler while the wife was at work because he was physically unable. Then I was at their house twice a day administering first aid to him because she was unable. We bonded a lot. We have a lot in common. I am the female version of him and his wife has made passing comments about how we would be perfect for each other. Over the last month or so there has been a lot of talk on our side. We are undoubtly soul mates. No shady stuff had happened. We just kinda confirmed that this was a thing. He kissed me yesterday. Like really kissed me. I have never had a physical or emotional reaction like that to anyone. The best way I can describe it is that there wasn't room for anything else in that moment. I wasn't aware of anything else but that. I couldn't feel the floor or the wall he backed me up against. Just him. It was like my brain was completely full of him and nothing else would fit. What do I do? Where do I go from here? He's married with kids though his marriage to is on its way out. I'm married with kids and not unhappy. This has the potential to be amazing but there will be many hearts crushed on the way to that place. Do I sacrifice this for those hearts or do I sacrifice those hearts for that chance? Please. Anybody help me.
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I wish I could have a great reply for you. To be honest I am woman who is married. My marriage is falling apart and I have recently felt like I was falling for another man. What your going through is complicated and there are so many ways to look at your situation. So many "if's".. I honestly think you should talk to a marriage counsellor, even if on your own to try and figure out what it is you want. As for the kiss, it happened. I believe in honesty, but I know all too well it's not that easy. I think cheating, being physically intimate with another will only complicate how all of this turns out in the end. You still have to be friends with your husband even if your separated. For the children. Don't forget the children in this situation. I wish I could give you better advice but this is all I have.
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