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Am I wrong that I want to break up with my boyfriend?
We had good times together, we texted all the time. He'd wake up in the middle of the night and spam, "Zoë, zoë, zoë" And I'd wake up and reply, "It's 2:00... what is it?" And he'd text, "I love you." He'd text the most romantic things and I'd text back even more romantic things. I loved him, and I treated him right. Whenever he won a game, i'd praise him like he saved the world. Whenever he failed or did badly in school, i'd comfort him and if he ever doubted himself I would contradict and protest otherwise.
I think I was good to him, that I was a good girlfriend.
Then, the love just... stopped.
He stopped texting, he stopped saying I love you, he just... stopped.
I missed him, I couldn't eat, or sleep, wondering what was wrong, if he was hurt, or if he wanted to break up.
I grew thin and I became depressed. I would stay in bed, and I wouldn't come out. I hung out with my friends and tried to have fun but, the thought of him pushed me back from having fun. I couldn't have fun without knowing he texted me. I wanted to cry, or scream... All feelings just, stopped. I wasn't mad, or angry. I was nauseous all the time but never hungry. I wasn't tired but my eyes begged to close. My heart wanted to love, but it couldn't bear the pain it was in.
He never broke up with me so I'm planning to break up with him.
Am I wrong to want to break up with a boy that once made me happy but now avoids me?
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I think you should ask why he's avoiding you first. It takes courage but if he's being troubled by something then it will be worthwhile asking. If he doesn't have a good reason for ignoring you then it isn't wrong to break up with him. It's never wrong to move away from someone who's making you unhappy. Hope you sort this out <3
ReplyIf I'm honest, I was once in a similar situation myself. And, in the end I broke things off. I couldn't understand where it all went wrong and why it all went wrong, I drove myself crazy with emotion and just craved the love and attention I had once received. I, too, stopped eating and sleeping and really just stopped being me. I also questioned whether I should continue the relationship or not.
And, to be honest, it's unhealthy and you know that otherwise you wouldn't question it. I know that when I broke things off with my boyfriend at the time, it was incredibly difficult and it took me a while to get over it, but I was happy and confident that I made the right decision.
However, my relationship turned very black and white, he didn't care and I cared too much. Cutting all ties was for my own good. Yet, not all situations are the same, I definitely think you should talk to him and be honest with how your feeling. After, that conversation, once you see his reaction and hopefully learn what he is thinking and feeling, then I'm sure you'll know what to do. Good luck X
ReplyI completely agree with communicating with him and seeing what the hell is up. But at the same time he's got a mouth too and he is completely capable of speaking to you and communicating with you.From what you're saying it sounds like you need his support right now more than he needs yours!You are never EVER wrong to break up with someone. You are never obligated to be in a relationship!!!It took me a very long time to realize this. I was in a traditionally "great" relationship he was kind and thoughtful and sincere but I realized that I didn't have any sort of attraction to him. Really I felt nothing towards him past a platonic friendship.I worried so much about being viewed as the bad one in the relationship for leaving. Or coming off as unappreciative or wrong... but I still left, because you know what??? I was just not feeling it.It wasn't fair to him or to me to be in a relationship that I wasn't invested in. That would be a waste of both of our time!So YEA GIRL... If I could break up with someone who was really good to me because I wasn't emotionally invested I think it is BEYOND 1000% OKAY that you're breaking up with someone who is essentially treating you like garbage!You are worth all the love in the world baby girl!!! Like scream it from the rooftops!!!!!You are stronger than you know and you are doing yourself and this boy a favor by breaking it off.Also, I check novni fairly regularly so if you need more advice I am 100% here and with you!
ReplyThank you for your support. I have communicated with him on text but he never texted back. Also, I know he has access to texting me, he likes other girls' posts but not mine anymore.P.S. the world needs more people like you. 😊😊😊
ReplyOkay, let me know how it goes. Everything will be okay 👍
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