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I married a woman I had known for the majority of my life. She was always strong willed and motivated and passionate about everything she did. She was a singer, a songwriter... and she was very good. I thought she was so cool. Not a month after we were married everything took a complete 180. She developed severe anxiety depression and agoraphobia. Now she can't even deal with the slightest inconvenience. For example, before, whenever we got lost driving somewhere it was an adventure and we'd have fun exploring, butToday I had trouble finding her grandma's house and she nearly had a panic attack. She has had suicidal thoughts and after two years of trying to get her the help she needs I have been worn down to a stump. And I have found the thought of no longer existing appealing. I don't know if I need help as well but there have been moments when I have thought that she has just been so miserable... ( I have NEVER thought about taking her life) but like if there were some accident that happened to her maybe she wouldn't have to suffer anymore. I hope though that she can be happy again with me. Because I love her and I want to spend my whole life with her. It just kills me to see her so... helpless and miserable
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She needs help, a therapist would do wonders for her, so she can talk out her anxieties, her worries. That way she can come home to you with a fresh mind that has been put at ease. Yes it can be expensive, but at the cost of your sanity ? It is because you are with her, its causing you to feel the anxiety everyday as well, which can cause it to become a constant mental state. You could likely use some therapy too, to get these worries and fears off of your shoulders. This is clearly too much for you, and she isn't taking care of you, BUT you aren't taking care of you as well, because you're busy taking care of her. TAKE CARE OF YOU, YOU NEED LOVE AND HAPPINESS TOO.I think first step is to just talk to her, but do some research, there are wonderful resources to help explain how to talk to her about what shes going through, and how to mention therapy in a non-threatening way.
ReplyAlso talk to her, these changes don't come out of nowhere. Something must have happened. Just ask her how are you doing, what's going through your head ? Best of luck.
ReplyI guess you dont love her, if you love her you will be so patient that you will do anything for her. That you will accept her whatever and whoever she is, that you’ll do everything not to lose her.
Talk to her, be her husband as you promised in you’re wedding day. Be her psychologists, her friend, her helper, be her everything. I think she’s already sad enough, so pls be her happiness. Have faith, God has always a reason.
God choose you to be with her cause he knew you’re the one that she needed.
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