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My girlfriend broke up with me, i don't know how i'm gonna do this
6 years ago · 3 · Stress need advice, +3 · Explicit
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As the title says, she broke up with me. I cried about 4 times yesterday, I cried waking up today. I'm depressed as fuck and I'm not sure how I'm gonna continue this. I have big test coming up today and I didnt study and the thought of my parents scolding me because of this just adds salt to the wound. I love this girl a lot. She could point a gun to my head and i would still die for her. I miss her a lot. Its been about 2 days since we broke up. I wanted to marry her and I still do but she says she's lost feelings for me. We've been talking about this type of break-up situation, whether we would last or not, whether we should continue this or not. I kept saying yes we should and a few days later she comes up telling me this. It really hurts and i want to die. My view on my future is not as clear as it used to be. And this relationship we have was was for over 2 years so yeah.
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I know this feeling. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm willing to bet your mind is racing right now and possible you feel as though you have to do something asap to sort this out and see if it could be fixed; call her, message her, anything. If that's the case, honestly the absolute best thing you can do is just slow down and take a breath. All of the questions and concerns racing around your mind don't need to be answer today, not even tomorrow.
For now, as hard as it may seem, just put it to the back of your mind and focus on your day to day. Do this up until the weekend and you will be so glad that you did. Things will seem clearer, you'll have a better understanding of the situation, and you won't don't anything silly out of panic or fear.
It's going to be tough but please give it a go, you will thank yourself in a few days time when you're feeling much better and in control.
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Replyif she's not willing to fight for you and to be with you, she's not a keeper. sometimes love comes harshly and rough too. if you do love her, then find happiness for her. just the matter of fact does her happiness is in your hand for you to hold or some other people. your happiness might be in her hands or other people hand or maybe it's in your hands. they say you should fight for what it's worth it.
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