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Okay, well I'm almost 15 and I've always complained about wanting a bf..now I have one but I don't want one?!? He's my first bf, and my friend hooked us up just to go to homecoming together..then ig we started talking. My homecoming is Saturday but the thing is..me and him have still never officially met. Not that I'm judging him solely on his appearence, but from what I hear he isn't the best looking, I still don't know what he even looks like exactly because he never posts pics..he's already talking about kissing me at homecoming to, which has me even more freaked out because I've never had my first kiss & im extremely shy. I also said I'd go to his homecoming which is next month, but ughh..I'm really dreading this whole relationship thing now. I just need some advice please
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It's better to go homecoming alone than with someone you don't like.
ReplyI never had a gf, I am 21 and I am so happy about that. Bf or gf is really a problem. If we get married I would love that but generally couples dont care about marriage.
ReplyIt sounds more like a blind date set-up than an actual relationship. Remember that you are not obligated to treat him as a boyfriend - it is ok to just be casual dates. I think he's just saying what he thinks he's supposed to say, perhaps not realising that it makes you uncomfortable. You should definitely tell him if you think he's taking things too fast, and try to establish some boundaries. Don't force yourself into a relationship, just because you think that's what's expected of you. You don't need to kiss a near-stranger, and you don't need to feel bad about feeling unsure. Remember, there's no rush. You'll have plenty of time for more serious relationships when you feel completely ready.
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