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So I wrote this yesterday before I signed up and now it's somewhere on the site but I can't see the comments so I'm reposting it here<3
I don't know what to do with my boyfriend
he has cheated 8 times in the relationship and I feel like he doesn't love me and that he just wants me for sex.
But every time I break up with him, he cries his eyes out and promises he'll change.
Of course I believe him because I love him so much, but every single time he promises he won't again but then he does
I don't know what to do, I don't want to lose him
I know he can change, right?
He says he loves me and it looks like he does, but my friends keep telling me that if he really loved me he wouldn't be doing this to me so many times and that he would've changed after the first time
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I'm sorry to say but I do agree with your friends. Honey you deserve someone who is going to be as 100% real with you as you are with them.
If he really wants to change, then he will go and get help, couples therapy? Or maybe he has a high sex drive and needs to go to therapy for that?
I've been there, and it sucks to say, but sometimes they want you so badly only because they see that you love them no matter the wrong they do, and once they know that, they know they can do anything and still have you there no matter how bad you are hurting, you put yourself aside for him. You are his security blanket and thats not okay. Its time to put yourself first and love your self enough to see that if he cared about your feelings, he would not be abusing them the way he does and running doubt's through your mind. You deserve your 100% love. Whatever happens I wish you the best. And I hope if you do continue on with him, I hope he really does change.
ReplyHe's not going too change. And theirs nothing you can do to make him change. Only he will change if he wants too. But he's not, he's guilt tripping you. He knows if he cry his eyes out. You will come right back running too him. leave him, he is putting your health in danger. you don't know if these girls have std and so on. leave
Replyoh noooo, cheating not cool baby
ReplySweetie, he's not going to change and you deserve so much better
ReplyHe's not going to change. This is harsh but honestly if you feel that way it probably is. Sometimes you have to let go of the things that hurt you. Obviously he'd still want you back because if not he's losing his dignity. You should stand up for what is right. Currently they are you Emotions and mental health. Ask your girlfriends for support and help When you break up with him the next time. Get them to be with you. Tell them your final decision and they hold your ground. Sometimes all of us need a little help too.
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