the laundry nazi

I have been drinking beer and I am waiting for my husband to go to sleep so I can go to bed and not have to fucking argue with him. I have been married to him for 16 years and we have been through a lot of shit. BUT...he has always been an asshole about laundry. Nothing else. Just laundry. Like a mama's boy. He is a slob and is very messy. I clean up after him every fucking day of my life. But he wants me to get a "job". I wait on him and our child hand and foot. Evidentally that is not enough. I need a REAL job. You know, I had a real job when I met him...and it was great. But when I gave birth I had a new job. And this one is 24/7. I "could" go get an office job while our child is at school...but I would still be expected to have dinner ready and homework done and other things. I have a REAL JOB. It is being a mother that is present and involved. All he cares about is housewife duties. The fucking laundry. Ughhhhhhh. It feels good to vent about this. Even if this is just a website and I am just typing out my feelings...it is a release of frustration and emotion.