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(NOTE: WE ARE FIRST YEARS)
So here it goes... It has been continuing for about 2 months now.
It all started when I met a guy that I really was interested in.
I met him the two months ago at a barbecue and all went very fast from there. He asked for my number and then phoned me for a couple of dates. I said yes and realized that I really like him. (That is what I thought). He asked me to be his partner at a formal and I said yes. That evening came and we went to the formal. All was well and the things turned sideways. The way he acted in front of his friends were totally different that how I knew him. I want someone that could be themselves in front of me. The evening was still plenty of fun but I then realized it work out between us for a numerous reasons . My best friend met on of his best friends that evening. (one of the friends I didn't like). My best friends was in a relationship for a Year and a half at this stage.
Eniway, I didn't make much of everything and decided although it will hurt knowing that this man and I won't work out, I enjoyed the evening at thought that would be it...
My best friend and my "ex-crush" started hanging out...a LOT. They were together almost every time of every day and meanwhile her boyfriend didn't even know this...
I told her I don't agree with what she was doing and that that guy was also suppose to respect her relationship she was in...but they both just went on.
Finally her boyfriend found out of everything and what they had done... and before we know it...she left him...she left her relationship of a year and a half, a relationship she couldn't stop talking about and how she is going to marry him...and suddenly in 2 months time she met this guy through my ex-crush... a=talks about my crush all the time (and that hurts me) and no suddenly she likes my crush's friend...
It is just hard to hear all the stories of my crush, when I know things won't work out and then to know that my best friend is with some guy that has a negative influence in her life...I dob't know if she likes the guy because of money, pleasure or just because they spend so much time together...
I t feels like she is also ruining our friendship without even knowing...and making me sad because I want the best for her.... and I just ant to forget about my crush...
What do I do to make her realize she is on a dangerous path? What do I do to rescue our friendship... What do I do before she looses herself completely?
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You can try to bring out the true picture of that guy.... Make her understand what kind of a person he is, how he is having a negative effect on her and specially your friendship.. maybe on the mention of your friendship, she might give it a thought!!
hope this helps:)
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