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I need advice. I met a nice person a while back, we have known each other for a few months. In the beginning they seemed like a great fit for me and I had no doubts. But now I am noticing some possible issues.
They have talked about having me stay with them for a while (a few weeks to a few months) and I was totally okay with this idea at first. But I now feel unsure about whether I am up to this or not or if I am even compatible with this person.
I am close to friends and family near me and by leaving like this, I would be leaving them behind for long periods of time and this thought upsets me a lot. I also have dreams of what I want to do, and it would be hard to fit this person into my plans. My family had a nice plan of stuff to do together and by doing something like this, I would be abandoning what I really do look forward to.
We have not spoken much in the past few weeks and I feel like I am drifting away slowly, and it bothers me but at the same time does not and I am confused by this. I think I fell way too hard for this person at first. Probably the most important thing to note regarding this is, something seems off about this person to me. I have tried to ignore it but I started noticing it a few weeks ago when we talked less.
The first week we met over 10 months ago, we hit it off well. But this person started becoming really close fast and at first I thought it was normal, but I see it is abnormal now. They also are the over-protective type of person which did not bother me at first but now slightly does. I feel like I would be giving up my youth and what I love if I chose this.
There is more to the story but this is all I prefer to post because this is the most I feel comfortable posting about. Should I listen to my gut and get out or what should I do?
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If you are not ready- do not force it. If you do not feel it and you sense some stuff. Save them and yourself some time. The other person will only end up hurt or that feeling you have could be serious. Some people have that ability. Ive been in a relationship for about 41/2 years. It takes a lot of trust, communication, and you must be ready. My relationship is beautiful but I am not quite ready for marriage. Sure were in our early 20s. We are faithful and have had some crazy times. Roller coaster stuff. It’s hard work. I really am not sure if I am ready for such a huge commitment rn. Like we both just turned 23! I mean really what comes after- a family and then just a lot. I’m not ready yet. I disire to enjoy our time together and go out to parties, socialize, get to travel. They have to be your best friend and partner all in one. You will know when they are right. It’s always weird to have an over clingy- over protective person. They usually get worse. Checking your phone- asking who that person your messaging and it’s ur mom. You gotta be careful. Living or staying with someone is a pretty big commitment. You see a lot. Probably go with your instinct and enjoy your life.
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