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I am 26 Indian girl and till date, I tried to find the life partner on my own. But failed at all attempts. Either some caste issue or family didn't approve of the guy or guy's family didn't approve of me. After all these heart breakings situations, I have lost hope for love. But now, I am at this age, that my parents are now saying that they gave me time to find the life partner, now get ready for arrange marriage. I am also very much in need of physical love. So, I agreed to this. But doing is so much harder than saying.
I get so much anxiety when anybody asks me about marriage or some arrange marriage proposal comes to me. I just don't know how to react. I get panic attacks thinking about marrying the unknown person :(
It is so scary, everyone comes and tells me how much older I am getting and how I should be getting married as soon as possible.
They are my friends and these people are saying this to me, just because they found their life partner earlier. They are now making me insecure about my age and marriage. I don't think I should call them my friends anymore but I would be lying that I myself get depressed because I have not found my life partner yet. I just can't help it, I also have needs. I am also a human and sometimes I feel like why I never met my life partner, soulmate yet??
It just feeels bad, i dont open facebook anymore, because everybody is there with their husband posting selfie and what not. After feeling all these feelings, i still can't help but get anxiety about arrange marriage
On one hand i want marriage but on other i dont want arrange marriage :((((
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in my opinion, dont do it. getting married is your choice and should always only be your choice, its okay to not have found someone, your only in your 20s thats when you should be having the time of your life and enjoying it, just remember that whatever happens in your life is up to you, and someone else cant make that choice for you. Dont do what the world tells you but instead what you can tell your self.
ReplyWow, I don't know what to say. Just know that things will work out. Don't let your friends/family pressure you-- the right person will come when the time is right.
ReplyDon't do it. You need to make you own decisions in life. Travel, see new things broaden your horizons love will follow.
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